By Ovie Bethel
The world of social media is causing a lot of individuals sleepless night and headache due to the deceitful and flamboyant lifestyle they witnessed on the new media.
Social media has become a means of judging one financial status and stability based on the quality and well edited photos and videos we shared.
Today,social media do not tell you who has money in his/her bank account, eaten and even have accomodation either by building or rentage,but you are envying people you might even be better than on social media, forgetting that we all used social media to package and brand our personalities for societal acceptability.So stop 🛑 the headache
Many of those you envy on social media are not financially better than you,it is just packaging.
Interestingly,some used car,house they never owned and even went as far as borrowing shirts,shoes and phone with good camera using good location to take a nice shot and share on social media and you start telling God why me,even when God has helped you to be financially stable than the person you are envying and you wish to be like.
Worstly,some women put undue pressure on their husband by placing unnecessary demands that is beyond the earnings of the man and went as far as leaving their marriage because the man couldn’t meet up with those demands due to bad social media influence of trying to belong and take good photos and videos,sharing selfie upon selfie just to get attention of innocent boys in the street.
One of my fans chatted me recently and said Bros,you are always online,how are you able to subscribe for your data consumption? I laughed warmly and told him that, I am running a media outfit on social media.So, I can stay hungry just to subscribe my phone.My phone is my company,so I must do everything possible to keep moving even if I might have personal challenges.
So don’t be confuse or have headache seeing photos on social media.We are all packaging.
Learn to appreciate the little you have and build good self-esteem.
Stop 🛑 the headache.
Comr. Ovie Bethel golden 🖊️🖋️ 🖊️
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